Category Archives: Life
how we suffer?
first we create illusion of pleasure object if its available, create expectations, then we crave for them, then we act to get them, if satisfied we get temporary pleasure, if not it gives us pain; after a short period we again crave for them, while craving we feel the pain, suffer. so its more of pain than pleasure. most sense gratification harm us in one way or other, either it makes you unproductive, harms health, shift the focus from giving. it should not be an addiction but only be achieved if we wish to get from our heart, value it, truly need them, from the money we have earned through labor, hard work; not from others money, or quick money.
Never judge peoples action or words, you can never know the right intention behind them. Its ultimately they who have to pay for their good or bad intentions and good or bad actions right here in the form of inner pain or inner satisfaction/happiness after action or intense
affection can be to all, but intimacy is to just one, the one who is yours.
lust is to all, intimacy is to one. morality is intimacy and not lust. Intimacy is moral because you consider the other person as yours and you don’t harm yourself, Do you? so its not selfish so its moral, it’s based on the emotion of love. Thats why marriages are considered so moral and so being in a relationship with one is moral. But without love again it’s no intimacy even in marriages or relationship. On the other side love/affection can happen with everyone, so you should have the freedom to love all when you are in an intimate relationship with one person and affection towards others should not be confused with intimacy, that’s where trust comes. So possession and love is very much necessary in intimacy.